Saturday, April 29, 2006

Have you noticed...

Dear loyal readers,

Have you noticed something a little different in our blog today? I'll give you a few minutes. Look long and hard..... Anything?..... Anything at all? .....Um, ok time's up! Geez, stop straining your eyes. I'll just tell you (as if the purpose of this post was anything but!): I've added two new links to our growing "Links" section on the right hand side of the page.

1) Shailja Patel--I've admired this woman, poet, activist, performer, etc. for a long, long time and I thought it's about high time, I shared my secret with you. She's one hell of a poet and performer, and from her blog, a very smart, opiniated, and observant woman! I really think she's this amazing woman who I would just love to meet one day. Visit her website to get more details on her background, her performances, and a preview of her published works.

2) Angry Asian Man--Also another site I've been lurking on for quite some time. He's funny, articulate, and he's got all the happenings for all things Asian-American. From media portrayals, and arts and culture, to the daily struggles, misconceptions, and stereotypes of Asian-Americans. Great thoughts/links/news on hyphenated Americans (Asians) in American. Of course, they're all just his opinions, but I love it! Needless to say, the site relates well with one of the purposes of this blog.

So...friendly readers, click away on the new links to the right, and enjoy!

P.S. Please, Please. Stop it. No really. *blushing* We know, we're just so cool. I mean, who else, goes out of their way to provide you with such compelling, entertaining, and amusing information. That's right. NO ONE! But here at hyphenatedtwentysomething, we are altruistic souls. We already know you love us and thank us. No need to say it so loudly:)

A Follow Up...

Earlier I had posted about a poll that revealed that more Americans can name all The Simpsons characters than the five freedoms from the 1st Amendment of the Constitution. Well here's a great comic strip that I found that captures the exact feeling of disappointment and well, concern for our fellow citizens and really the state of our country. If the results are to be believed at all (of course all polls are biased and contain a margin of error to a certain extent as we know), can you imagine if this were to become a standard question on citizenship tests for immigrants? If current citizens, both naturalized and permanent, have trouble answering this, would those seeking citizenship, especially those with little education and little to no English skills, be able to answer this? More importantly, what right do those (i.e. citizens who don't know even know their 5 freedoms) have to complain about immigrants and their right to become Americans, when they, themselves, don't know what freedoms and rights they have?

From the
New Standard, where else (sorry, click on the link to the left or the comic for a bigger image, and well, to read it!):

Thursday, April 27, 2006

Book this Date! NOW!

Good music, Great place, and Free! Enough said.

"This summer, the spirit of that festival will animate a new series, Music Without Borders, presented in Millennium Park by the city's Department of Cultural Affairs (which also organizes the World Music Festival).Music Without Borders will open with three summertime concerts, then continue with three additional Millennium Park concerts presented as part of the World Music Festival. Millennium Park this year will sound increasingly international from June through September.

Aug. 13: Anoushka Shankar's "Rise." Everyone knows Shankar's father, sitar icon Ravi Shankar, but on this occasion the younger player will step to the forefront, making her Chicago debut as bandleader. Her "Rise" project, which was nominated for a Grammy Award for best contemporary world music album, merges ancient Indian musical practice with 21st Century instrumentation. The evening also will include a guest deejay set by Karsh Kale."(Link).

Karsh Kale! I'm so there:) Who's with me??

Hell No!!!!!

Roaches as Broaches??? (free subscription required) EWWW!!!!!

From the Chicago Tribune:

"So what now is the, uh, most creative application for the dazzling little crystals that designers can't seem to run out of ideas for? Jeweled cockroach brooches.Live cockroaches, as in the giant Madagascar hissing kind.Jared Gold, a Salt Lake City-based designer, dreamed up the idea as an "over-the-top" way to push his Glinka clothing collection, a kind of "Russian-Psychedelic-Space-Witch theme," he revealed in an online chat hosted by The Washington Post.Gold's bugs are studded with Austrian Swarovski crystals, come with a leash set and are ready to "wear.""

Friday, April 21, 2006

Ah..To be Young and Glamorous

My niece, Mihika: A diva in the making!


Thursday, April 20, 2006

The New Standard, Indeed

From The New Standard:

The "Coveted" Political Contributers

As I continued my procrastination and internet browsing (see previous post), I came upon this article on the Indian-Americans and their political contributions, financially and otherwise. In a study conducted by my Alma Mater:) (If you don't know, maybe the color scheme is a clue!), it shows that:

"Thus, political scientists note that, compared to other Asian Americans, Indian Americans are “most ideally poised to enter the political arena given their high socio demographic levels and English proficiency.” In addition they are already signaling “a strong presence with the large number of viable candidates, and their campaign donations have no plateau in sight.” The
prediction is that “one should not be surprised to see a more noticeable
presence of Indian-Americans on the political scene in the next few decades.”


It may seem that since some wealthy Indian-Americans may have the money to finance election campaigns, they would be the ideal voters to attract. However, it's that predictable:

"A new study claims that media impressions of Asian American contributions are shaped largely by fast and loose commentary glibly put forth and then recirculated among politicians, activists, pundits, and journalists. “Beyond the many casual statements lacking hard evidence, we know little about the patterns of Asian American campaign contributions.”

So here comes the academia's purpose for research (and to end your guessing game)...

"That’s why Wendy K. Tam Cho and Suneet Lad of the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign have studied Indian American campaign contributions in their paper entitled 'Subcontinental Divide, Asian Indians and Asian American Politics'. The authors note that although Asian Indians have all the makings of a coveted electoral group (i.e., high income levels and a growing base of voters), research on the extent and character of this group’s political leanings is scant. The authors claim that although Indian Americans have given substantial sums of money, “we have few notions of their political tendencies or the preferences manifested by their donation patterns,” the authors say."

However, I'm not completely satisfied with the results that the article claims the study revealed.

"The study points out that the rate of growth in Indian-American campaign contributions exceed the growth rate of the population. Whereas the Indian-American population has doubled during each decennial census, the rise in contributions has far overshadowed even this phenomenal population growth.
The study concludes that, as a group, Indian Americans “display all the makings of a coveted bloc, untethered to either major party.” They go on to predict “the perfect strategy may engender the group into a partisan fold early and sustain their loyalty for generations to come” and that “the political development of the Asian Indian group is malleable.”

The article poses the following questions, questions which I, myself, would like to have answered:

  1. Do they vote for their own ethnic candidates?
  2. Is their socioeconomic status the key variable?
  3. Whose campaigns are they contributing money?
  4. Why do they contribute? Do they contribute money to influence politicians?
  5. Are they successful in pushing their favorite policy issues?
  6. Or, are they more interested in contributing to Indian-American or even Asian-American candidates as, perhaps, a gesture of ethnic pride or solidarity?

I guess I'll have to read their paper to find out more, but I wish the answers to the questions I mentioned above were more highlighted in the article itself.


Lying Low

So..sorry about the long withdrawal from blogging. I've been lying low. I'm trying to make some future life decisions and I'm procrastinating them by watching lots of tv, surfing way too much on the internet, listening to random bands, and contemplating if working out a lot tomorrow (or maybe the following day OR maybe over the weekend for..like..a few hours) will make up for not working out all week;) I know,I know, I'm so LAZY! Oh well, I figure, since I didn't really get a "true" senior spring break, I'll just extend my break over a few weeks. Yeah, I'll keep telling myself that. But...I wasn't a complete bum. I just finished this great book in one day. That's right my friends, you've read that correctly. ONE DAY! All 300-some pages of it. Nothing new for an English minor, but in my defense, the book was just so good, I couldn't put it down! Funny Boy, by Shyam Selvadurai is a a really good book, but it's really sad too. I wouldn't call this a fun, light read, especially during a break. It's about a young boy growing up in Sri Lanka, amid all of the political violence and conflicts between the Tamil Tigers and Sinhalese. It's also one of those books that resonates with you even after you've finished because you keep thinking about the plot, the characters, and the themes and the emotionial impact of it all. I find that those are some of the best books I've ever read. I don't want to give too much of it away, because I really liked it and I want to recommend it to you all to read. It's very engrossing, and all of the characters are so complex and vivid. It brought back some memories of my own childhood and playing with other children who were sometimes very cliquey and ruthless, but also innocent and naive and blindly believing whatever their parents told them as many kids do while growing, before making their own choices and coming to terms with their own beliefs. It also reminded me of getting annoyed with overly protective and overbearing aunties who were really nosy and always wanted to compare their children or glorify all of their children's achievements and abilities to everyone else when they came over to the house. Anyway, it's very-well written, relatable, and consuming as you follow this boy's life. I also, really enjoyed learning more about Sri Lanka, its languages, people, culture, and politics, not only from the book but also from subsequent research. So...my "break" wasn't completey unproductive. But, no worries, summer is just around the corner and procrastination and laziness has never been a problem for me :)

Hmm..Coincidence? I Think Not.

So..I just saw the big headline from people magazine (ok, so secretly, I really really love reading about celeb gossip. Don't laugh. I know you have your own quirky/secret pasttime too, like..ahem..watching soap operas or something insanely ridiculous like that. Besides, reading and People Magazine?? Blasphemous! I only skim my dear reader.): TomKat have finally had their baby (after what seems like the longest gestation period known to any woman) (oh, and I wonder, how many couches did he jump on after he found out??)and......Brooke Shields has her baby on the same day TOO!! Hah! How ironic. Just thought it might bring a smile to your face on a boring Thursday morning. Come, Come, maybe they can call it a truce. BTW, wouldn't it be funny if in a few years their spawn got together. Let the drama and hilarity continue...

Friday, April 14, 2006

Say What!?????

Why? Why must everything be twisted and turned and ultimately be concluded as a religious dogma???
Here we go...


Episcopal Churches Turn to U2 to Pack Pews

By RAY HENRY, Associated Press WriterFri Apr 14, 9:14 AM ET

As the electric guitar in the U2 anthem "Pride (In the Name of Love)" faded from four speakers, the Rev. Robert Brooks welcomed worshippers to Grace Episcopal Church with an unusual suggestion: He warned them to protect their hearing.

"If the sound's an issue, we do have earplugs available," he said.

Ushers handed out earplugs and fluorescent glow sticks for the "U2 Eucharist," a communion service punctuated by the Irish rock band's music. Episcopal parishes from California to Maine have hosted similar events, weaving U2's tunes — laced with biblical references — into the liturgy.

Streamers flew over worshippers' heads at the recent gathering in Providence. Children danced by the altar. Plasma-screen TVs illuminated the gothic sanctuary. Some people sang and clapped, while a few looked puzzled.

Brooks said the evening was designed to invigorate his once-aging congregation — attracting young people and those interested in social activism. "We absolutely need to grow in order to survive," he said.

Weeks before the service, church members conducted what Brooks called "guerrilla marketing," posting fliers at coffee and sandwich shops, bars and colleges. About 130 people showed up for the Friday night service, roughly the same turnout as a Sunday morning. The event included an offering for local charities and enlisted volunteers for the One Campaign, an effort to alleviate global poverty backed by U2's lead singer, Bono.

A similar U2 Eucharist in November proved popular at All Saints' Church in Atlanta. Organizer Laurie Haynes Burlington said she and her husband planned on 300 worshippers. About 500 showed up.

No one tracks how many parishes have hosted similar events, but the service in Providence was based on a playlist created by the Rev. Paige Blair, a parish priest in York Harbor, Maine.

Her format has spread by word-of-mouth and on clergy e-mail lists. She's received calls from more than a dozen interested churches and helped put on the service in Providence. (Episcopal parishes seem to be the only ones that have latched on to U2 in such an organized way).

Christian Scharen, 39, a Lutheran pastor and professor at Yale Divinity School, said he's often argued to older colleagues that U2 is heavily influenced by Christianity. He wrote a book on the subject, "One Step Closer: Why U2 Matters to Those Seeking God," and says it doesn't surprise him that some congregations have caught on.

"People who have these liturgical resonances in their bones, they go to a U2 concert and they just get it," Scharen said.

Bono, meanwhile, has told interviewers that he worships God through music. He once belonged to an ascetic Christian community, and in February, he spoke at the National Prayer Breakfast. The band's early tapes were sold in religious bookstores.

Still, the band members are traditional rock 'n' rollers — they swear, drink and sing about sex. It's also not known whether U2 endorses the services using their songs: Blair said she received permission from U2's publishing company to use the group's music, but never talked to the band. Representatives for U2 did not return phone calls seeking comment.

In Providence, Blair delivered a homily to pitch the One Campaign, which the Episcopal Church supports. She ticked off statistics about poverty and infant mortality in Africa, underscoring her points with equal parts Bono and Bible.

"If you're a Bono fan, you know the next line: Where you live should not determine whether you live or die," she said, then reminding worshippers of a Gospel passage warning that taking care of the needy is what will separate the good from the bad at the final judgment.

The opening hymn was "Pride (In the Name of Love)," an early hit. As the music played, pictures of famous believers including Harriet Tubman, Rosa Parks and the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. flashed on a 10-by-14 foot screen set up behind the church's altar.

Several songs included in the service sound more like angry lamentations than hymns of praise. "Peace on Earth," inspired by a deadly bombing in Northern Ireland, questions why God won't halt human suffering.

"Jesus can you take the time to throw a drowning man a line," Bono sings.

Some Christians might not be able to relate to the shades of doubt and anger, but Blair said that struggle is evident in the Bible.

For example, Bono echoes the 40th Psalm in the opening lines of the band's song "40," belting out, "I waited patiently for the Lord. He inclined and heard my cry."

Huh?? My Dad was right??!!!!!!

Hah,
Apparently I did choose the "right" major for me!


Your Scholastic Strength Is Evaluating
You are great at looking at many details and putting them all together are talented at detecting subtle trends, accuracy, and managing change.
You should major in:
Statistics Speech Conflict studies Communication Finance Medicine

What Should You Major In?



Ummm...does this mean I lived up to my dad's potential of getting a business degree and should now make my mom finally proud of me by going to MED school!
Oh, The Horror! The Horror!
I guess I have no idea what is good for me and should now proceed to be the typical, good Indian daughter and deny my liberal arts interests including any hopes of a career in journalism or law!




Your Career Type: Social
You are helpful, friendly, and trustworthy talents lie in teaching, nursing, giving information, and solving social problems.
You would make an excellent:
Counselor - Dental Hygienist - LibrarianNurse - Parole Officer - Personal TrainerPhysical Therapist - Social Worker - Teacher
The worst career options for your are realistic careers, like truck driver or farmer.

What's" Your Ideal Career?


Of course these are just trivial quizzes, but I always find it funny, how Tanvi, who is a math genius (no really, she's got that secret desi math power gene that apparently was never passed down to me!) wants to be a sociology/"frou-frou" major. And then there's me, with my few math abilities, and a finance degree (don't ask how I did it, although I continue to be amazed by the fact that I actually graduated and got pretty decent grades) wishing that I was a little better at math, science, or related subjects so it would be easier for me to choose a "practical, secure" career and feel normal and make my parents proud. I always find it interesting how we wish to be others, or have the abilities/talents that others have and we are never satisfied with our own. And yet, math and those related subjects are not my best academic areas or my interests and I always find my way back into those liberal arts classes like history, English, Political Science, Anthropology, Sociology, etc. Also, it's funny how Tanvi is a math major, and from what I know of her, also enjoys math, but wants a career in a different sector. And while I survived my major and at some points found it interesting, I was never truly passionate about it, and yet I find myself following that "practical" path and working away in my cubicle.

This is a topic that is so cliche and recognized often, especially in our South-Asian circles, of following a "traditional" career, but I am continually inspired by all those who take their talents, interests, skills, education, and circumstances and turn it into a fulfilling, challenging, and successful career. Many times, they try their hand at a traditional career, only to later on revert back to their original passions. It's so often talked about and shown in movies though (even if we all complain that it's about time we moved on from the whole "career/identity/what will my parents think" themes) , because no matter how cliche it is, it's still true and is still of significance!!


In another blog site, a blogger aptly described what's inspiring about these people who do end up doing amazing things: "the drive to live for one's dreams (not in a world that is limited by conventions or other people's notions of "what is right")."

Here's hoping Tanvi and I will someday live out our dreams and hey, if nothing else, I can "evaluate" while she can "inspire people" and together we can have "social" career paths and live in our own dreamy, utopian "frou-frou" world!!

The answer to all of life's questions....

Oh, what a fool I have been? I have been killing myself trying to answer difficult questions about my future, like what should I major in? What career should I choose? Should it be practical and safe or impractical and risky? Will I be happy if I choose a practical and financially secure career when all I really want to do is help save the world? Will I burn out from trying to fix the problems in the world and just end up proving what my critics have been saying all along? Well, stupid me! I was approaching all of this the wrong way. Why didn't anyone tell me that all of life's questions can be answered by simply taking a BlogThings quiz?


Your Scholastic Strength Is Inspiring Others

You are great at developing a vision, and getting others to adopt your way of thinking.You are talented at leading, balancing tasks, and helping people work together.
You should major in:
Counseling
Environmental studies
Law
Social work
Political science
Nursing



Your Career Type: Social

You are helpful, friendly, and trustworthy.
Your talents lie in teaching, nursing, giving information, and solving social problems.

You would make an excellent:

Counselor - Dental Hygienist - Librarian
Nurse - Parole Officer - Personal Trainer
Physical Therapist - Social Worker - Teacher

The worst career options for your are realistic careers, like truck driver or farmer.


Well, I guess that answers it. Now, how exactly do I explain my decision to abandon my good ole practical Mathematics degree and go for a "frou frou" degree like sociology? Do you think they will understand if I say the computer told me to?


Your turn...
What Should You Major In?

What's Your Ideal Career?

Thursday, April 13, 2006

Jon Stewart, Illinois, and lots of confusion!

This made me smile:

School hires wrong Jon Stewart
The Associated Press
April 13, 2006, 7:07 AM CDT

When Chicago-area part-time professional wrestler Jon A. Stewart got an invitation to speak at a charter school fund-raiser in Utah, he was so surprised he wrote school officials back to make sure they had the right man.They assured him they did. But they didn't.Instead of the Deerfield man, school officials thought they were booking Jon Stewart, the host of TV's "The Daily Show."They uncovered the mix-up before the April 20th event and told Illinois' Stewart not to come.He said he actually felt bad for school officials, who paid all of his non-refundable transportation expenses. "My ego was not the problem here," he said.

Copyright (c) 2006, Chicago Tribune

In a slightly tangent note, this kind of reminds me of our idiotic governor who went on the real Jon Stewart's Daily Show and didn't know who he was, and then proceeded to make a fool out of himself by not realizing that the questions that were being asked in his interview were tongue in cheek and a mockery, so he kept giving weird looks to the "news host" and asking questions like, "Is that a serious question?"!!!......What is it with confusion, Jon Stewart, and people from Illinois?
Hmmm..something very weird is going on, indeed. Of course, Tanvi and I are never confused when it comes to Jon Stewart and have nothing to do with this:)

Apparently I'm not in it for the popularity!

Your Blogging Type is Confident and Insightful
You've got a ton of brain power, and you leverage it into brilliant blog.Both creative and logical, you come up with amazing ideas and insights.A total perfectionist, you find yourself revising and rewriting posts a lot of the time.You blog for yourself - and you don't care how popular (or unpopular) your blog is!
What's" Your Blogging Personality?

3rd I Film Screening

A few minutes ago, I was working, and by “working” I mean “pretending to work when in fact surfing the Internet,” when I came across a fantastic event in the Chi-Town area. I am sure most of you have heard of 3rd I, if not, you really should go check them out. Well, Third I is having a film screening on Sunday, April 30th at 7:00 PM at Chicago Filmmakers. Two films will be featured; both of which address the effects war have on South Asian women.


The first film is…
"When the Storm Came" by Shilpi Gupta


The women of Kunnan Pushpora trek through the jungle to collect firewood for fuel in the militarized valley nestled at the foothills of the Himalayas in Kashmir. But they are haunted by a night now deeply entrenched in their collective memory. "When the Storm Came" tells their story and gives a human face to the commonly used "weapon" of war - rape.
Through evocative interviews with women and men in the village, the film recreates the night of February 23, 1991, when villagers say they were victims of a mass rape at the hands of Indian security forces. A brief look at the history of India and Pakistan with respect to Kashmir provides context to the charged situation in the Himalayan paradise.


After spending the last few weeks discussing war in my human rights class, I have to say that the violence that exists in our world seems to have no bounds. Each week I return from class, a little more devastated from learning what human beings are capable of doing to anyone they see as less than human. One of the most depressing classes I ever attended occurred a few weeks ago, when we learned of how rape was used as a weapon of war. I was shocked to learn that even though it is illegal, most fighters still believe that rape is a legitimate “spoil of war.” I am so glad that someone has made a film about the situation in Kashmir, because the Human Rights Watch report I read about the treatment of women in that region was troubling to say the least.


The second film is…
"A Certain Liberation" by Yasmine Kabir

Gurudasi Mondol gave herself up to madness in 1971, during the Liberation War of Bangladesh. Thirty years later, Gurudasi continues to roam the streets of a small-town in rural Bangladesh, in quest of all she has lost; snatching at will from strangers and breaking into spaces normally reserved for men. She is unafraid of authority and scorns it. In her madness, she has found a strategy for survival. Gurudasi has attained near legendary status. Through her indomitable presence, she has kept alive the spirit of the Liberation War.

Sounds intriguing doesn’t it? I have never heard of Gurudasi Mondol, but that’s not saying much. However, I am looking forward to learning more.

I know that Sunday night might not be the most convenient time and it may even be a pain to organize getting to the location, believe me, I understand all that. In fact, I am not even sure how I am going to manage it. However, I think that these two films are going to totally be worth all the effort it takes to go see them. For more details about the event,
click here. I hope to see you there!

Remember me?

Ok, ok, ok! I know I have been a “little” absent lately. Well, don’t you dare blame me! Blame the spawns of Satan that are WORK and SCHOOL! They have combined their forces and made it their mission to destroy my life. They both keep stealing my sleep and my peace. They hide in my eyelashes and …… oh wait, that’s another story. Anyway, lets get back to the point. Today, I come with an announcement for all my devoted fans……fear no more, for I have returned! (Well, at least until I get swamped by finals that is.) Now quit complaining, it’s not like you really noticed my absence because my partner in crime, Ms. Payal, has been posting enough for the both of us. So, now it is time for me to return to the hell that is my job. Wish me well. And prepare yourselves, because my next post shall knock your socks off!

Monday, April 10, 2006

Do you really want to live here?

The Netherlands' new slogan for prospective immigrants: We love our country, but have you seen our DVD???
 
Yesterday, I read this article in the newspaper and I wonder (well, dread), with all the talk of immigration reform and especially all of the rallies that are taking place today, April 10th, in a few years from now, will America do something similar to this? : Dutch to Muslims: Do you really want to settle here?
 
I don't really mind asking new immigrants to accept, tolerate certain beliefs and practices of a certain country as the Dutch are trying to do with their new DVD. Every country has their own culture, laws, and rights and it is to be expected that citizens abide by them, assuming that they are civil and just. But, I mean, to specifically ask for an extremely high fee for the citizenship exam along with the DVD as a way to deter hopeful immigrants is just plain mean. In addition, while it's rather generous of them to show the tolerance of homosexuality and nudity in their DVDs and prepare immigrants of the reality they should expect, it's interesting that they decided to include this now, after so many years. Do they really think this is going to help "integrate" immigrants? Of course, this is their way of warding off extremists and conservatives, but how is this helping the cultural divides within their communities? Rather than closing the gap, they seem to think that by preventing (well, what they hope will be preventing) the influx of new conservative immigrants(read: basically anyone brown, muslim, or not socially liberal)  to the Netherlands, the problem will automatically disappear! Or maybe be contained. But for how long? And what about the future generations, such as new second-geners, who are Dutch themselves, but whose parents were immigrants, how well will they associate their peers and communities when they don't feel fully accepted or appreciated as rightful citizens?
 
Especially suspicious is the fact that:
 
 "U.S. citizens and residents of EU countries do not have to take the exam, fueling Muslim suspicions that the test is mainly meant to exclude them."
 
Hmm..so while I'm sure the Dutch are wonderful people, I guess they're not as tolerant as they claim to be then, are they.  There are a lot of things to consider and while we face some different issues here in America, let's hope that our immigration reform doesn't come down to this level: an expensive test and a lousy,"revealing" DVD.

 

Students Rallying!

Students are getting in on the act of participating and joining the many protests going around the nation for immigration reform. Of course, people of all ages, ethinicities, and backgrounds are getting involved for various reasons. But here's one reason that really stood out to me: Students rally for own future and immigrants'.
 
Some students may not have had the opportunities to make decisions and choose the path of their lives as young children, but now they have a voice and they are making it known! More power to them.
 
Also, here's a list of organizations getting involved in the rallies and in the immigration reform process in general: http://www.cccaction.org/cccaction/april10_index.html
 
Get Involved!

And you thought your phone bill was a little high this month...

Man Gets $218 Trillion Phone Bill. Umm..I think this guy should consider email as a more viable option, well at least a cheaper one!

Thursday, April 06, 2006

A Walking Dog

No really. I mean an actual walking dog. Just watch it, and you'll know what I mean. Let's just say, this is not your average man's best friend. Check this out. It's pretty cool. (Note: Pet lovers, and well, all dog lovers, you may need to keep some Kleenex nearby;)

Please Read This!

I read this at 4pm. Not the greatest of ideas on a busy workday. This resulted in almost zero productivity at work for the next hour as I remained numb, overwhelmed, and a whole slew of emotions came over me. Then, realizing that I didn't want to live in my cube for the rest of the night, I tried to crank out some stuff, but well, let's just say, nothing was really accomplished. But whatever you do today, I urge you to please read this post! It is intense, powerful, and emotional. Regardless of what age, sex, religion, race, class, or nationality you are, just read this. Really. Just wow.

I realized that if I was in her place, I probably would have many of the same choices, given people benefit of the doubt, and really believed in the goodness of strangers. And then, to be so violated. Worst of all, is the feeling of guilt, the feeling that somehow you are to blame and that it was your fault. And then, to consider how your family, friends, peers, and others will treat you and look at you from that point on. I only hope that I could be there for someone if something like this happened to him/her. Indeed, we are not alone. Let us all provide the support, trust, faith, and strengh to all of our sisters and brothers who have been hurt. And let's get it out in the open and discuss it. And then, do something and help others. No woman should feel alone, guilty, and tainted by others because of this awful act. Anyways, my comments aren't doing any justice to it. Just read it.

PS: Also, please refer here for ways to volunteer, to get a list of helpful organizations, and to learn more about other agencies that are reaching out to members of the South-Asian community as well as all others to increase awareness and provide support to victims. In particular, right here in Chicago, we have a great resource in Apna Ghar.

Monday, April 03, 2006

Not Your Average Business Class...

In the April 10th, 2006 issue, Time Magazine's "Inside Business" special section features a business professor, Srikumar Rao (Titled "B-School Buddhism", Carolina A. Miranda), who teaches a personal development class for business students at Columbia University. No accounting, finance, or marketing. This is all about your inner self and finding what motivates you, makes you a better leader, a helpful person, and in return a better team player who is willing to live by his/her ethics in the business world. In his classes, he uses Eastern spirituality and tries to make the future business leaders of America "grateful" and find meaningful interests that they can integrate into their own business careers. When students feel a little lost or question their priorities, he asks his students, "Is this what you want your legacy to be?" and to also ask themselves, "What can I do to make things better?"

He has a Ph.D in marketing from Columbia and also has a book out titled, Are You Ready to Succeed? Here's the official website for his book, and here's his bio from SAJA. Anyway, I think it's great that he's teaching his students to maintain their humanity and ethics in the corporate world and do something positive with their business knowledge. From his website though, it looks like he's asking students of all fields (regardless if you're a business major or not, or even interested in that field of study) to evaluate their lives, find their interests, and seize the day! Seems like he's the Deepak Chopra for the aspiring business leader;)

Unfortunately, Time Magazine online doesn't have the article yet, but it should be up by early next week. For now, look for it in the print edition or go to his website.

Saturday, April 01, 2006

Duped!..oh and a little bit of fame??

We are such gullible fools. To think, that we would join the mutiny! Hah! Well, Happy April Fool's Day indeed. Thankfully, Sepia Mutiny is all fine and apparently the only things that got hijacked were our brains! I think Tanvi and I really need to start becoming more aware of what the date is. This feels just like when we were planning to go to Michigan at the beginning of Feb. and for the life of us, we couldn't figure out why all the hotels were booked up and were so expensive! Oh that's right, our dumb brains forgot it was SUPER BOWL WEEKEND in Detroit! Dear God. We need help. We know.

But on a completely brighter note, WE WERE RECOGNIZED ON SEPIA MUTINY! (The last link in the sentence that mentions the "shocked" blogosphere) We got our 1 minute of blog fame. Even if it was to feature our gullibility (real word?). So much for thinking that only two people read our blog:). Well who knows, maybe we'll only have two people who'll read the blog now, knowing how dim-witted we are:)

Well, I'm actually not bitter at all. It was one hell of a joke and it was hilarious. Mad props to everyone at SM. Again, just read through those product descriptions. Enough Said.

Happy April Fools Day!